Proverbs 10 : 19 When words are many, transgression is not lacking,
but whoever restrains his lips is prudent.
Growing up as I hit my teen years , my mouth could get me in trouble and I do mean trouble. I didn't really swear a lot , but I could be very nasty when arguing . I would take no prisoners. My other weakness had to do with exaggerating when telling a story . I didn't do it all the time and even when I did , the core was true . My tongue was not a clean thing .
- After becoming a Christian it was one of the things I was convicted over. But I have to honest , it has not been easy. As Proverbs points out , when we talk too much , speak when we really should remain silent , transgression or sin will follow . My mouth has been tamed greatly over the last 2 years but it is still a struggle at times. My focus has been to be slow to speak , measuring my words with grace and purpose. If you suffer the same problem, confess each day and ask God to convict you of whatever form of speech is unfit. For its a heart problem , a sin problem. As I focus on Christ and ask the Holy Spirit to change my heart , what proceeds from my mouth is changing.
Communication is a wonderful gift from God . Hearing my wife say I love you or sharing a coffee with a friend and talking about life , laughing etc.. But it can also tear down, condemn , lie , blaspheme and destroy . So repent and let the Holy Spirit change your heart , and let God's word so fill the soul that we become conformed to Christ and tame the tongue .